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Blog Post: On Family, on Death, on Connection
Blog Post: On Family, on Death, on Connection
Jun
.
24th
,
2018
01:59 pm
aldersprig
Content Warning: The below discusses family issues, death, disconnection, drama, and pain. It's as close to unfiltered as I get on a public space.
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Date:
2018-06-24 05:06 pm (UTC)
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wispfox
*listening*
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Date:
2018-06-24 11:42 pm (UTC)
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aldersprig
Thank you. <3
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Date:
2018-06-25 09:14 am (UTC)
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kelkyag
My sympathies on your losses.
I hope you find a way to rebuild the frayed family connections that you've been missing.
(And yes, dementia jokes are right out. That is one of the terrifying things.)
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Date:
2018-06-25 01:48 pm (UTC)
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aldersprig
Thank you.
There are two aunts that I really want to connect with. I’ll see how well I manage.
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Date:
2018-06-25 11:50 pm (UTC)
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novel_machinist
I'm deeply sorry for your loss I know those feelings that you shared. It's difficult and you put it into beautiful words.
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Date:
2018-07-02 12:58 am (UTC)
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sauergeek
My condolences.
Connecting — or re-connecting — with people is a lot of work. It's something I'm not particularly good at, whether from lack of inclination or lack of ability or both I'm not sure.
Best wishes to you on doing so.
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Date:
2018-07-02 11:38 am (UTC)
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clare_dragonfly
I'm sorry about your grandmother. I thankfully don't know much about Alzheimer's, but I know it's horrible to see your loved ones succumb.
I hope that your relatives feel the same way you do about seeing you before the next funeral, and that you find ways to work it out.
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Date: 2018-06-24 05:06 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2018-06-24 11:42 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2018-06-25 09:14 am (UTC)I hope you find a way to rebuild the frayed family connections that you've been missing.
(And yes, dementia jokes are right out. That is one of the terrifying things.)
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Date: 2018-06-25 01:48 pm (UTC)There are two aunts that I really want to connect with. I’ll see how well I manage.
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Date: 2018-06-25 11:50 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2018-07-02 12:58 am (UTC)Connecting — or re-connecting — with people is a lot of work. It's something I'm not particularly good at, whether from lack of inclination or lack of ability or both I'm not sure.
Best wishes to you on doing so.
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Date: 2018-07-02 11:38 am (UTC)I hope that your relatives feel the same way you do about seeing you before the next funeral, and that you find ways to work it out.